“It’s all in my Head”

Was reminded today of one week several years ago when it seemed all my students had discovered hidden talents.

One young lady had accomplished the near-impossible task of completing long-division with remainders without showing any work whatsoever!  When I inquired about her work, she simply replied, “I did it in my head.”  Pretty amazing considering math was usually her most challenging subject.

Another young lady read aloud her rather creative spelling story.  When I asked her to share one of her more remarkable sentences with us, she gave me the deer-in-the-headlights pose.  Upon further inspection, her spelling composition notebook was completly blank.  Her reply?  “I didn’t write down my story – it’s all in my head.”  Sigh…

Tip to parents:  please, please, please review your child’s homework each night to ensure that it’s not all still stuck in their heads. 🙂


So I spent last weekend with three male family members and it occurred to me that communication could have been better.  Throughout my career, I’ve witnessed many well-meaning parents answering for their children, ordering their meals, finishing their sentences.  It’s so important that a child learns to speak for themselves.  That means that when a waitress looks at me and asks what my child would like to drink I kindly tell her to ask him.  And yes, I say the same thing to my husband when he wants to know what our child would like.  How would I know?  Ask him.


In educational settings it’s important to offer many opportunities for students to speak up for themselves.  Teachers call it wait time and we are pretty patient, but often other students speak up.  All young people must be instructed in giving “wait time” to others so they may collect their thoughts, processing information at their own rate, and decide what they want to say.  Easy?  Nah.  Important?  Absolutely.


Next time you find yourself in the presence of a young person, please slow down and allow that child the opportunity to speak for themselves.  It may seem like eons to you, but remember that it’s time well spent.

Thoughts on Writing (republished from my former blog)

My son is a 4th grader this year and is learning how to be a better writer.  He’s enthralled by all the elaboration techniques available these days.  Things sure have changed, y’know.  We used to study/teach similes, metaphors, etc. out of an English textbook.  His enlightened teacher doesn’t use a text, but chooses activities like showing movie clips and allowing him to respond in writing, giving the perfect authentic opportunity to practice these elaboration techniques.  We are even throwing out “trash words” from our daily communication.  He’s growing as a writer and a thinker.  I like that!

My own students struggle with basic reading and writing skills.  They are simply trying to formulate a basic sentence, so the idea of trying to get them to expand on their ideas is daunting at best.  Cop out?  Nah – I work with very special young people whose strengths are not always of the academic sort.  We need to embrace the different learners out there who will undoubtedly add to our society in their own unique way.  Yes, some are meant to be thinkers and some to be workers.  Some to build, some to create, and some to write.  There’s not a darn thing wrong with that.

So what are the elaboration techniques my son is being encouraged to use?  Your basic literary elements are there:  simile, metaphor, personification, hyperbole, but he is also encouraged to create “thought shots” which share his feelings and to hook them with a really good beginning sentence.  Sometimes it’s contrived; other times it’s pretty good!

Will he be a famous writer?  Probably not, but he sure has discovered a new appreciation for the written words.  And for that I am truly grateful.

Feed the Birds

If you have small children, you are well aware of the craft opportunities available.  One that drives me nuts is the ever-popular “let’s make a bird feeder” option.  Oftentimes, this simply requires spreading peanut butter on a pinecone and rolling it in bird seed.  Then you have to figure out how to get this messy project home, and when you do the backyard squirrel snatches it out of the tree in record time never to be seen again.  I have a better idea:

Make your backyard an ongoing bird-feeding experience.  Buy or make a simple birdfeeder and keep it filled with seed.  Here in the the south we buy the regular year-round seed, but on the East Coast our birds preferred black oil sunflower seeds.

When my son was a pre-schooler we lived in a split-level house.  My husband and I had created a bird-friendly back yard, so one spring a mother robin built her nest in the cross beams of the deck.  We could go out on the deck and look down between the cracks and see inside the nest!  In the basement, we could look out the slider and see her swooping in and out feeding her babies.  Talk about an experience!  Our son learned how to gently walk across the deck so he could see the eggs, and ultimately the baby birds.  He also learned that we needed to give the momma bird privacy so she could tend to them.  Imagine his surprise when they hatched and he was able to see how different they looked!  We even had the opportunity to discuss why one had not hatched.

Now that we live in the south we have a different array of birds, but our backyard still offers opportunities for our son to observe their natural habits year round.  This has provided a great frame of reference for scientific research.  Children are naturally curious and what better way to encourage this curiosity than through natural experiences!

So keep those bird feeders filled and the binoculars handy!

Mad about Math!

I love, love, love teaching math.  Had you told me 20 years ago that I would be saying that now I would have laughed in your face, but I have discovered the love those geeky mathematicians knew about years ago.

Math makes sense – logic with numbers, I like to say.  In my small groups we get away from the drudgery of algorithms and get to truly experience math.  They get to make sense out of mathematics instead of simply memorizing facts.  This is the kind of math that drives parents insane (“I just don’t get this new math!”), but it works.

Differentiated education says we need to teach kids in ways they understand (think VAK – visual, auditory, kinesthetic approaches).  Constructivist math takes this one step further and says we need to help kids construct math ideas so they can make sense out of them, aka understand them.  This is where the love part comes in – we get to play with stuff during math class:  my 2nd graders were learning subtraction with regrouping in their traditional classroom.  They were busy memorizing the algorithm and were good at following the steps.  Then they come to me, their remedial instructor.  I ask them the one question that stops all kids in their tracks:  “Why? Why do you need to borrow from the tens place?”

“Because that’s the way you do it,” one young man responded.  How many of us have felt the same way about math equations?

This is when I dump the base 10 blocks in the middle of the table and have them show me the problem without pencil and paper.  I want to see them regrouping the tens and ones.  I want them to get a true understanding of why you can’t simply take more ones than are there.  I want them to have an understanding that goes deeper than simply memorizing the algorithm.  They will need this understanding later on, and it’s much easier to acquire when you’re 7 years old.

Jump ahead to my 7th graders who are in a pre-algebra class.  They’re really good at plugging in numbers to their formulas, however they consistently err due to lack of conceptual understanding.  For example, when subtracting 14 from both sides they ended up with the equation:  7-14.  Three students responded with 13 as their difference.  Why?  Because they had set up the equation vertically with the 7 and the 4 in the ones’ place.  7-4 is 3 then you bring down the 1 that is by itself.  They were just going through the process without considering what 7-14 actually means.  I needed to reteach number lines to 7th graders because somewhere along the way they missed out on the concepts.

Embrace the “new math”.  Learn the best ways to teach your students so that they have a strong foundation with which to scaffold their higher-level math concepts.

Peace – Lynn